We often think that those who go the extra mile to choose themselves are somehow selfish, naturally stronger, or that it just comes easy for them.
But the truth is, choosing yourself takes effort, itโs something we all have to work on. It means defying our instincts to fit in and be accepted.
๐พ๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐, ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐-๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐, ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐, ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐.

Before someone found a great partner, they may have had to walk away from a love that wasnโt reciprocated.
Before that promotion, maybe they had to learn how to communicate their value in the workplace.
Before having the physique they wanted, they had to build daily habits that aligned with their goals.
The ability to say no or stand up for oneself isnโt something that happens overnight. Itโs the result of practice, of learning to assert your boundaries, and of overcoming the moments when you were taken advantage of.
๐ฌ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐, the discomfort of leaving the familiar, the pain of change, and the challenge of building something new.
๐ช๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐, ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐, ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐, ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐โ๐ ๐๐๐๐ .
But ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ง ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐ก๐จ๐จ๐ฌ๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฌ๐๐ฅ๐, ๐ข๐ญ ๐ฅ๐๐๐๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฌ๐จ๐ฆ๐๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ ๐ซ๐๐๐ญ๐๐ซ: ๐ ๐ฅ๐ข๐๐ ๐ฅ๐ข๐ฏ๐๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ, ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ฉ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐, ๐๐ง๐ ๐จ๐ง ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐จ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ญ๐๐ซ๐ฆ๐ฌ.
Think of a time you felt proud of yourself or accomplished something you really wanted. Was it easy? What are the greatest memories of your life? What did you do to get there?
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